My Random Thoughts

My Random Thoughts 
By: Gamson Jr Mawallil Quijano

Everyone has a unique story to tell. Trials are boundless and just free to come and go in our lives to agonize us emotionally, mentally and physically. Nevertheless, optimum patience is extremely crucial amid all of these. Because know, had we been just lenient in dealing with it, triumph awaits us at the end.  ‬

When we create plans for our lives, we thought it’s already the best for us. But, sometimes out of Allaah’s mercy and wisdom, He replaces it with something that’s truly best for us. He has always perfect plans for us. Let’s surrender and submit everything to Him.

One of the best feelings is when your heart remains happy amidst all the trials that you are passing through and still able to patiently accept it that it was the decree of Allaah and you are contented and pleased with it.

Amidst the sadness, still, manage to smile and be grateful to Him.

Let’s continue to fervently beseech Allāh that may our beloved families, loved ones, as well as ourselves, be protected and safeguarded by Him from any natural or man-made catastrophes wherever we may be. Aameen. 

When someone trusts you on something, don’t reveal or tattle it even to someone you trust. Safeguard and protect it. 

Someday you will comprehend the wisdom behind for not getting things that you extremely yearn for on time that you truly wanted; and certainly you will be grateful to Allaah for it.

Had I been just in control of everything, I would surely do all the things that make my heart happy. But, there are things that are beyond my command and only Allaah has the sole control of it. Thus, I must leave it to Him and trust His wisdom in whatever His decisions are.

Positive and negative will always be there in every person and situation. As much as possible, look at the positive side, but don’t neglect the negative one. Deal both w/ good thoughts & actions. Never ruin your happiness by only focusing on the negative. Life is always balance.

‎We just need to accept it and move on. Life, after all, must go on. If we didn't get what our hearts yearn for, surely الله has other best plans for us, as always.

Allāh (Alone) is sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of Affairs; Allāh is the One whose help is sought.

‎Alhamdu Lillaahi, I am impervious to every trial of lives in this world because I have always الله to trust to who promises twice that after hardship comes a relief.

There is always a time for everything according to Allah's decree.

If I did not get what I wished for, I have always accepted it was Allah's Decree. Allah knows what's best for His Servants. But we continue to hope and pray for His Mercy with all our heart. There is always a time for everything according to Allah's decree. — @WarinaSushil

“Allah hastens and delays matters according to His Will and Decree; so we patiently smile as we hold on and put our Trust in Him” — @WarinaSushil

Others have their own notions towards us in which they are entitled to it. Let’s just respect them and not get affected. If it's necessary to respond, do it cheerfully, graciously and calmly. Otherwise, observe silence, because it is the best answer to a fool.

Instead of underrating your brethren, just always be grateful and humble yourself before الله for having the things that your brethren don't and may not have. Spread love, kindness and compassion, NOT animosities.

‎Everyone has ups and downs that they have to learn from. That’s why every morning I start off with a good head on my shoulders, saying to myself, everything is going to be alright because I have always الله to trust, Who promises twice that after hardship comes relief.

In life, it’s normal to be in a black or white situation. Remember, it’s not permanent. Just enjoy and learn while tactfully dealing with both of it.

So… Breathe. Slowly. Exhale. Slowly. Whenever you are weary, go to a tranquil place and unwind yourself.

When you prioritize & give importance to unimportant things in your life that don’t need to be done, you’ll surely lose the important things that you should have started & done.

To make things clearer, have the decency to ask straightforwardly the person involved if you have doubt about something. Don’t just presume and end up sorry. Clarification is the key.

If you want to be understood, learn how to understand.

Nice things can always be seen everywhere; we just need to be keen and appreciative.

Reflect on every mistake that you made in your life and take it as a lesson.

Indeed, nothing beats the diplomatic/gracious approach when addressing any dilemmas in our lives.

Before all, you represent who you are, so always be the best version of who you are. But don't modify who you really are just because of others. Continue to be as you are, always kindhearted and humble, to anyone not just to someone or a special few.

No matter how miles away and oceans apart I am right now, there are really times that my heart will miss the “only place I call home” and where I happily grew up and spent many precious memories with my family and loved ones; that's my beloved homeland, LupahSug.

Just like our lives, no matter how perfect the day is, it always has to end. Another beautiful ending and a start towards a new and brighter beginning.

Let’s always forgive people who sincerely asked for an apology; likewise those who didn’t ask. Let bygones be bygones.

One of the best things that we could do to our families, loved ones, and friends wherever they are is to beseech to Allaah to keep them always safe and secure as well as grant them the best of health, eiman, and well-being.

Knowing how to value, respect and honor the people around us regardless of their societal status and even if they do not belong to the rich or elite family is one of the greatest upright behaviors that ourselves can represent to them.

Show your love to your family and loved ones by serving/offering/giving them healthy foods and beverages.

It is so ironic that we beg Allaah to forgive our innumerable sins and obliterate it for us; yet it’s difficult for us to forgive the one who once hurts us before and just let bygones be bygones.

Islām is “NOT” one of chaos and lawlessness. The lamentable and inhuman terrorist activities that are happening today across the world are undeniably ”despicable acts” that Islām has ever forbidden. Thus, Islām vehemently condemns it and every single genuine Muslim abhors it.

If there’s someone who can give value to yourself first and foremost, it’s you! Don’t waste your precious life on people who doesn’t know your worth. Learn how to value and uplift yourself so that others will do the same for you.

Whenever we can be of help to alleviate someone’s agony, don’t hesitate or balk to help even if it is just a piece of advice.

I appreciate and value my friend who knows how to pay respect for my parents when they see them.

Ask for a sincere apology when you have offended someone. Likewise, sincerely accept apology when someone has asked from you. Never bear grudges.

Avoid asking questions on somebody that will make him/her feel awkward and embarrassed to answer, especially so when it’s done in a group or public and also if you aren’t someone’s comfortable with. Always respect and honor someone’s privacy.

Truly, we will never taste the essence of true happiness if we continue to let rancor prevail in our hearts. Hence, we must not allow animosity to reign in our hearts because it will only ruin ourselves just how the fire burned its fuel.

Never be a reason for destruction of someone’s sacred and precious life. Always care for others with honor and dignity because undoubtedly that’s how you also wanted to be equally treated.

Certain idea when being discussed deeper becomes thoroughly filtered and turns out to be best. But some people fail to understand this. Instead, they consider the one who litigates the idea as OBSTRUCTIONIST and they even PERSONALIZE the issue.

Always show your affection and care for your family and loved-ones unconditionally and without any hesitation. Likewise, hastily reconcile when there are misunderstandings between and amongst you. At least, when one of you will inevitably be gone one day, ‬you will depart with love and mercy in your hearts.

It is part of etiquette to refrain from asking people about their private affairs especially in public. 

Surely, life will always be blissful had we just known how to appreciate, to be contented with, and to be grateful for, every little thing we have. 

When you realize that you have hurt someone, have the decency to humble yourself to ask for a sincere apology to that person. 

Stand firmly in darkness and in brightness because both make your life more meaningful.

Don’t lose the opportunity by being afraid to try to achieve what you want in life. If that will be yours, it will surely be yours. Just have the determination, turn all the stones that are left unturned; above all, TRUST ALLĀH along the way!

Humble yourself before Allāh, the All-Mighty, the Real Bestower, for everything that you possess including your wealth, health, status, intellectual abilities, and life. Never brag. Just be humble and be grateful to Him. 

Only a heart that possesses a steadfast faith in الله can positively, tactfully and valiant​ly face and handle huge trials that inevitably come across our lives in this temporary world. Let’s keep our hearts elated and firm in Him, for surely He has the best plans for us, as always.

“One of the painful realizations in life is that we are busy growing up, we often forget that our parents, our elders and loved ones are growing old, too. Hence, always make time while there’s still time, forgive a lot and spread love as much as we can.” - Aldhakeel Amjad Tulawie

Worry less.. because we have Allāh (Alone) Who is sufficient for us, and He is the Best Disposer of Affairs; Allāh is the One whose help is sought. 

Be hopeful to Allāh and wholeheartedly put your trust in Him. In a split-second, He can change everything! So, never doubt in His capacity because He is able to do all things!

To be remembered by someone close to your heart is priceless and exhilarating. 

No matter how hectic your schedules are or how agonizingly you are dealing with day to day tribulations of life, remember, don’t skip performing your 5x daily obligatory prayers because that’s one of your paramount connections to your Rubb, Who is in control of everything and is capable of doing anything for you. Don’t dare to lose that connectivity.

Never waste the short precious moments that you should have been spending w/ your family & loved ones just because of pride. Don’t delay showing your love, care, & compassion 2 anyone around you especially your family & loved ones. Tomorrow is never a promise & regret is useless!

The saddest reality is that even if there are a lot of existing memoranda, issuances, policies, and laws that protect and safeguard the inalienable and substantive rights of Muslims in this country, there are those who still dare to defy and disrespect it.

Never be hasty or emotional when deciding on something. Always weigh the advantages and disadvantages and be rational; likewise, consult your elders. Above all, seek Allāh’s guidance through Istikara prayer and put your ultimate trust in Him.

One of the simplest and easiest yet best things that everyone can contribute for the betterment of the community is by not throwing their garbages even if it’s a candy wrapper in public places, especially into the sea. Self-discipline.

For as long as the battle against our unseen enemy that agonizes the world is not yet officially declared over, DO NOT BE COMPLACENT. Let’s continue to be cautious at all times by heeding the guidelines set by the authorities. May Allāh keep us all in the best of health and well-being, āmin.

Muslim communities elsewhere in the world play a vital role during the COVID19 pandemic by rendering invaluable humanitarian services to the people regardless of faith, creed, race, color, or gender. This is Islam!

Amidst the threat of this agonizing COVID19 pandemic, no choice but to live with it as life must go on.

Forsooth, lighting frightens me. But, its bright flash that illuminates the calm dark sky is spectacular and as if there’s an ongoing photo-shoot aloft; It is de-stressing and diverting to listen to one of the most relaxing sounds on earth you’ll ever hear, the gruffing and sonorous sound of thunder on a hushed night; Glory be to Allāh by Whom even the lightning and thunder glorify out of fear or awe of Him; Likewise, the sound of rain battering on the house roof, leaves, and soils outside and the wind howling in the trees indeed stress relieving and it will give you a restful sleep at nighttime.

You are most awaited by every Muslim believer who is exhilarated for your arrival of #Ramadhān_1441H. May the advent of this blessed month mark the end of the agonies of everyone across the world due to this pandemic crisis. Allāhummā Ballighnā Ramadhān. Aameen Ya Rabb. 

Be not that kind of netizens who are much inclined to nitpicking and have acerbic tongue. Let’s always behave graciously on social media. 

Never ever be hesitant in spending your time in doing righteous deeds that will make you a better Muslim and eventually get you closer to your Rabb and earned His pleasure. Remember, that’s the only thing that will benefit you on the day that even your own family and loved ones will flee from you.

Whenever you want to relax, indulge and enjoy in life, always opt for the #halaal way. Truly,  it won’t only give complete gladness and satisfaction of your heart, mind and soul, but also bring you closer to your Rubb by pleasing Him. Unlike the #haraam way, you only please your greatest enemy #shaytaan which eventually disavow you and inadvertently you are ruining yourself and perhaps others.

It is best to love washing dishes just as much as how we love to eat; but some people only love the latter. 

Some tiny details yet crucial can pop-up in our minds. Let’s pen it down so we may not forget it. 

At our early days, my beloved Inah taught us the importance of being thrifty. She always reminds us that “it’s better to endure while we have something, than to endure when we got nothing.” 

Having a sound knowledge of whatever we are doing is crucial. Knowledge guides us to do the right things; likewise, when we are in the most challenging situations, it helps us decide swiftly, rightfully, and smartly. 

Amidst the threat of this agonizing COVID19 pandemic, no choice but to live with it as life must go on.

If one is motivated enough to do something, they will find a way to do it. If there's a will, there's a way. 

Militants who are hiding in the jungle of Sulu, with all due respect, must come out and join our cause for our beloved Sulu just like Susukan. They must put an end now to their bad activities that only endanger the precious lives and hard-earned properties of our fellow Muslims and non-Muslims alike, as well as tarnish the splendid reputation of our Agama, Hulah, and Bangsa. You are a crucial part of the solutions to our various societal dilemmas. If you have grievances against our government, express it diplomatically and peacefully not with rancor that only results to terror in the hearts of our beloved fellow-Tausug. Don’t you love us? Whom will you expect to love and take good care of our Agama, Hulah, and Bangsa if not first and foremost you? Yes, it’s you, and the rest of the resident of LupahSug, of course, apart from Allaah. Hence, don’t be part of the problem; instead be at all times a proactive part of the solution.

My contemplation while working in a hospital: Seeing patients struggling from different illnesses and conditions makes me realize that truly the life in this world is just nothing but only a piece of flesh if it were not utilized for the pleasures of Allaah. Hence, we must really seize our health before any illnesses engulf us.

I always love to be invited; and I honor invitation for 3 reasons:1. It is from amongst the 6 rights of a Muslim over another Muslim as mentioned by our beloved Prophet Muhammad (sallaAllāhu alaihi wa sallam): [When a Muslim invites him, he accepts his invitation.] If a Muslim invites his Muslim fellow for food, feast or drink then the invited person must respond positively to his invitation. He should respect his brother and fulfil his rights and only excuse himself if one has a real excuse; 2. I want to respect and honor the inviter as how he/she respects and honors me by remembering me from amongst one of his/her esteemed invitees; 3. I don’t want to miss the precious moments that I can possibly share with them at that very moment especially so if the one who invites me is from my family and loved ones. 

When you send messages, please take extra care to convey complete thought exactly. Leaving sentences hanging, and, worst punctuated incorrectly can be a cause of alarm to the receiver. Caution: your careless message can cause heart attack! 

Writing complete sentences is essential to clear communication especially so if you are not facing each other. Thus, I do appreciate a person that when he/she communicates with me via SMS, Facebook chat, or email, among others, he/she expresses his/her certain thoughts completely and clearly in one full sentence with complete thought; as well as the writing is properly punctuated. Sometimes, incomplete sentences especially if there are urgency on it may cause several effects to the reader such as palpitations, etc. when he/she reads it.

Alhamdu Lillaahi, in times of need, there are still few rare kindhearted people who will willingly and sincerely help you alleviate your worries even if didn't ask help from them. May Allaah reward them with goodness in this world and in the hereafter. 

Nostalgia engulfs my heart whenever I suddenly miss all those folks & loved-ones who have long ago died before me. Innaa Lillaahi wa Innaa Ilayhi Raajiun. I must admit that these unforgettable moments I have shared with them will merely remain just precious memories. But one thing is certain, I shall treasure it forever.